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title: FLYINGFREE - Ninety-Day Notice Wasted
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- Young man given ninety days’ paid notice with freedom to job-search
- Spent sixty days feeling sorry for himself on continuing salary
- At thirty days left, asked boss for another month for private-school tuition
- Common story: tools to fly free, opportunity used up
- Expected the new job to come to him — not the normal chain of events
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  Dean’s cautionary tale: a worker wastes sixty of ninety paid notice days in
  self-pity, then begs more time — having expected a job to arrive unbidden.
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book_title: Flying Free
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book_chapter_title: Use Time as Your Friend – Determine Your Goal and Work Toward It
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description: >
  Chapter 16 caution — ninety-day paid notice wasted on self-pity; new job does
  not arrive unbidden.
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# Ninety-Day Notice Wasted

**Author:** Dean Rush  
**Book:** *Flying Free* · **Chapter 16:** Use Time as Your Friend – Determine Your Goal and Work Toward It  
**Full book:** [deanrush.net/downloads/flyingfreebook.md](https://deanrush.net/downloads/flyingfreebook.md)

## Context for the Reader

After positive counsel on using time, Dean supplies a negative case: paid notice, free schedule, and tools to fly free — spent on self-pity until a tuition plea. The lesson is effective time management under countdown, not cruelty toward the man.

> Voice note: Everything under **Dean's excerpt** is Dean's original prose (lightly cleaned only). Sections marked **Biblical foundations**, **Scholar sidebar**, **Takeaways**, and **First-time learner** are enrichment for Asker / first readers — not Dean speaking.

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## Biblical foundations (preface)

Dean warns against squandering a clear window. Scripture rebukes sluggishness, fantasy that provision arrives without seeking, and failure to act while it is day.

| Dean's claim | Scriptural undercarriage |
| --- | --- |
| Use effective time management in a known window | Make the best use of the time (Ephesians 5:15–16); night is coming when no one can work (John 9:4) |
| Self-pity can consume paid opportunity | A little sleep… poverty comes (Proverbs 6:9–11); the soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing (Proverbs 13:4) |
| Expecting the job to come to you is not normal | The hand of the diligent makes rich (Proverbs 10:4); ask, seek, knock (Matthew 7:7) |
| Common story — tools unused | Not hearers only (James 1:22); faith without works is dead (James 2:17) |

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## Dean's excerpt

### Ninety days

Use effective time management. I am aware of a young man who was given notice in May that his job would end ninety days later. He would be paid, have the ability to go out and search for new work, and come and go as he pleased during those ninety days. He spent sixty days feeling sorry for himself, living on the salary he was receiving as if it were going to continue forever, and not working to find another job. With only thirty days to go before his job finally ended, he walked in to his boss and said, “My kids are in private school and I need another month to be able to pay the tuition.” Unfortunately, this is really a common story. This guy had all the tools to fly free and he used up the opportunity to find a new job and was not aggressively seeking new employment. He expected the new job to come to him and that’s not the normal chain of events.

> **Scholar sidebar — Window, not entitlement**  
> Ephesians 5:15–16 and Proverbs 6:9–11 underwrite the warning without mocking the children’s tuition need. The failure Dean names is unused tools and passive expectation — “not the normal chain of events.” Keep the story as caution, not as scorn for every grieving worker.

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## Takeaways

1. **Effective time management.** Named as the heading skill.
2. **Ninety-day gift.** Pay + freedom to search.
3. **Sixty-day self-pity.** Salary treated as forever.
4. **Day-thirty plea.** Tuition crisis after waste.
5. **Jobs don’t arrive unbidden.** Aggressive seeking is normal chain of events.

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## First-time learner

### What is Dean saying in one sentence?
A man with ninety paid days to job-hunt spent sixty in self-pity, then begged more time — proof that tools to fly free are useless if you expect work to come to you.

### Is Dean against grief?
No — he is against burning a known countdown without search effort.

### Key verses to read with this lesson
- **Ephesians 5:15–16** — Walk wisely; redeem time.
- **Proverbs 6:9–11** — Slumber and poverty.
- **Proverbs 13:4** — Sluggard craves, gets nothing.
- **Proverbs 10:4** — Diligent hand.
- **Matthew 7:7** — Ask, seek, knock.
- **James 1:22** — Doers, not hearers only.

### A simple practice
If you have any countdown (notice, savings runway, lease end), write today’s date and the end date; list three job-search or skill actions for this week only.

### How this feeds Ask Dean
Seed material for: *What is Dean’s ninety-day notice story? Why did the man fail? What does Dean mean by normal chain of events?*