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- Plan sequentially and you can overcome most of those hurdles
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  Dean counsels using time as a friend: plot a passion career while employed,
  and sequential planning to clear family and income hurdles without raw guilt.
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  Chapter 16 title counsel — use time as friend; sequential plan from hated job
  toward passion while honoring family and bills.
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# Sequential Plan, Time as Friend

**Author:** Dean Rush  
**Book:** *Flying Free* · **Chapter 16:** Use Time as Your Friend – Determine Your Goal and Work Toward It  
**Full book:** [deanrush.net/downloads/flyingfreebook.md](https://deanrush.net/downloads/flyingfreebook.md)

## Context for the Reader

The chapter title becomes operational: even with a steady hated job, use time as friend by plotting transition. Guilt, family, and bills are named; sequential planning is the tool — not reckless quit-and-hope.

> Voice note: Everything under **Dean's excerpt** is Dean's original prose (lightly cleaned only). Sections marked **Biblical foundations**, **Scholar sidebar**, **Takeaways**, and **First-time learner** are enrichment for Asker / first readers — not Dean speaking.

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## Biblical foundations (preface)

Dean marries passion with ordered prudence. Scripture honors planning, providing for household, and redeeming time — without treating every job-hate as a license for impulse.

| Dean's claim | Scriptural undercarriage |
| --- | --- |
| Use available time as friend | Make the best use of the time (Ephesians 5:15–16); teach us to number our days (Psalm 90:12) |
| Plot a path toward passion vocation | The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance (Proverbs 21:5); commit your work to the Lord (Proverbs 16:3) |
| Plan reduces reckless guilt-driven leaps | Which of you, desiring to build, first counts the cost (Luke 14:28–30) |
| Family and income are real hurdles | If anyone does not provide for his relatives (1 Timothy 5:8); owe no one anything except love (Romans 13:8) |
| Sequential steps overcome most hurdles | One who is faithful in little (Luke 16:10); from strength to strength (Psalm 84:7) |

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## Dean's excerpt

### Plan sequentially

Use the available time as your friend. If you have a steady job but hate the time you spend working in that vocation, begin plotting a way to replace it with that profession for which you have a special passion. You can avoid the usual guilt found when you think about leaving a stable job by simply developing a plan to attain your desired position. Sometimes you are resistant to change because of the concern about the effect on your family, or your need of income to pay your bills. If you plan sequentially, you can overcome most of those hurdles.

> **Scholar sidebar — Friend, not freefall**  
> Ephesians 5:15–16 and Luke 14:28–30 keep “time as friend” tied to wise counting of cost. 1 Timothy 5:8 refuses plans that ignore family provision. Sequential is Dean’s keyword — step order, not daydream.

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## Takeaways

1. **Title practice.** Use available time as friend.
2. **Still employed?** Start plotting replacement toward passion.
3. **Plan kills vague guilt.** Guilt often thrives without a path.
4. **Name the resistances.** Family effect and bills are normal.
5. **Sequential beats most hurdles.** Order the steps.

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## First-time learner

### What is Dean saying in one sentence?
Treat time as a friend by plotting a sequential plan from a hated steady job toward your passion, so family and bills become hurdles you can clear instead of permanent excuses.

### Why not “just quit”?
Because Dean’s counsel is plan-first — guilt is answered by a path, not by impulse.

### Key verses to read with this lesson
- **Ephesians 5:15–16** — Redeem the time.
- **Psalm 90:12** — Number our days.
- **Proverbs 21:5** — Diligent plans.
- **Luke 14:28–30** — Count the cost.
- **1 Timothy 5:8** — Provide for household.
- **Luke 16:10** — Faithful in little.

### A simple practice
Draft a three-step sequential plan: skill gap → money bridge → transition trigger date. Share it with one trusted person.

### How this feeds Ask Dean
Seed material for: *How do I use time as my friend while still employed? What is a sequential plan? How does Dean handle family and bills?*