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- What started as a burden became more satisfying than anything in years
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  Encouraged by his wife, Dean enters seminary for a third master’s; early study
  and Bible questions turn a burden into deep satisfaction and fun.
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  Chapter 16 — wife encourages seminary; third master’s; 5 a.m. study; burden
  becomes fun and deep satisfaction.
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# Wife, Seminary, Life Became Fun

**Author:** Dean Rush  
**Book:** *Flying Free* · **Chapter 16:** Use Time as Your Friend – Determine Your Goal and Work Toward It  
**Full book:** [deanrush.net/downloads/flyingfreebook.md](https://deanrush.net/downloads/flyingfreebook.md)

## Context for the Reader

The church job opened a door; his wife names the long-held ministry desire and pushes school. This lesson is the study-and-joy beat: third master’s, early mornings, Bible questions, burden turning to fun — before DTS campus details and graduation.

> Voice note: Everything under **Dean's excerpt** is Dean's original prose (lightly cleaned only). Sections marked **Biblical foundations**, **Scholar sidebar**, **Takeaways**, and **First-time learner** are enrichment for Asker / first readers — not Dean speaking.

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## Biblical foundations (preface)

Dean pairs spousal wisdom with serious preparation for ministry. Scripture honors counsel from a close companion, diligence in study, and joy that grows when vocation aligns with desire under God.

| Dean's claim | Scriptural undercarriage |
| --- | --- |
| Wife knows the desire and encourages school | Two are better than one (Ecclesiastes 4:9–10); a prudent wife is from the Lord (Proverbs 19:14) |
| Prepare if you really want ministry work | Do your best to present yourself as one approved (2 Timothy 2:15); desire to be an overseer is a noble task (1 Timothy 3:1) |
| Mature learner still studies | Let the wise hear and increase in learning (Proverbs 1:5); grow in the grace and knowledge of Christ (2 Peter 3:18) |
| Burden becomes satisfying joy | The joy of the Lord is your strength (Nehemiah 8:10); delight yourself in the Lord (Psalm 37:4) |

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## Dean's excerpt

### Burden became objective

My wife knew of the desire I had always carried to work in ministry and she encouraged me to go back to school. I entered seminary for what would be my third master’s degree. I had prepared for my career in the corporate world with a Masters in Business and a Masters in Public Administration. If I really wanted to work in ministry, I decided I wanted to dive into a study that could help prepare me. I embarked on a master’s degree in religious studies. The degree would at least prepare me to make that fresh start in a new career. Admittedly, there were times I wasn’t sure my mature brain was ready for new study, but the classes were challenging and they grew on me. I suddenly found myself getting up at five a.m. to study and asking questions I had carried in my mind for years about the Bible. Suddenly life was fun. What had started out as a burden became an objective that was more satisfying than anything I had done in years.

> **Scholar sidebar — Desire plus discipline**  
> Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 honors the wife’s read of his long desire. 2 Timothy 2:15 underwrites “dive into a study that could help prepare me.” Psalm 37:4 and Nehemiah 8:10 meet the surprise of fun — joy as strength, not frivolity — when the objective finally matches the buried calling.

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## Takeaways

1. **Wife saw the desire.** Ministry had always been carried; she named and encouraged it.
2. **Third master’s.** Corporate degrees first; religious studies for a fresh start.
3. **Honest doubt.** Mature brain readiness was not assumed.
4. **Five a.m. and old questions.** Practice and curiosity returned together.
5. **Burden → fun → satisfaction.** The emotional arc is part of Dean’s evidence.

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## First-time learner

### What is Dean saying in one sentence?
His wife pushed him toward seminary for ministry preparation; early study and long-held Bible questions turned a burden into fun and deep satisfaction.

### Why does joy matter here?
Because “use time as friend” is not only grit — alignment can restore delight.

### Key verses to read with this lesson
- **Ecclesiastes 4:9–10** — Two better than one.
- **2 Timothy 2:15** — Approved worker; rightly handle the word.
- **Proverbs 1:5** — Increase in learning.
- **Psalm 37:4** — Delight in the Lord.
- **Nehemiah 8:10** — Joy of the Lord.
- **2 Peter 3:18** — Grow in grace and knowledge.

### A simple practice
Ask a trusted person what long desire they hear in you. Write their answer in one line; schedule one hour this week to study toward it.

### How this feeds Ask Dean
Seed material for: *Who encouraged Dean toward seminary? What degrees did he already have? How did study change his experience of life?*