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- In crisis Dean begins by prioritizing available choices
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  Dean’s working move in crisis: prioritize the available choices, then weigh how
  each will affect life — an objective start toward extricating from the problem.
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  Chapter 18 — Dean’s crisis habit: prioritize choices, then effects, to find
  direction out of the problem.
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# Prioritize Choices Then Weigh Effects

**Author:** Dean Rush  
**Book:** *Flying Free* · **Chapter 18:** Decide Where to Fly – Make A Decision  
**Full book:** [deanrush.net/downloads/flyingfreebook.md](https://deanrush.net/downloads/flyingfreebook.md)

## Context for the Reader

Having admitted no single method always wins under stress, Dean offers his personal sequence: prioritize available choices, then examine how they affect life. That ordering is how he seeks an exit direction when full laboratory analysis is impossible — and it frames the two job-loss stories ahead.

This lesson is Dean’s compact crisis algorithm in two moves.

> Voice note: Everything under **Dean's excerpt** is Dean's original prose (lightly cleaned only). Sections marked **Biblical foundations**, **Scholar sidebar**, **Takeaways**, and **First-time learner** are enrichment for Asker / first readers — not Dean speaking.

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## Biblical foundations (preface)

Prioritizing and counting effects echoes biblical ordered wisdom: seek first what matters most, then walk out implications without denial.

| Dean's claim | Scriptural undercarriage |
| --- | --- |
| Begin by prioritizing available choices | Seek first the kingdom (Matthew 6:33); approve what is excellent (Philippians 1:9–10) |
| Weigh how choices affect life | Sow what you reap (Galatians 6:7–8); the wise looks ahead (Proverbs 22:3) |
| Aim at extricating from the problem | Make straight paths for your feet (Hebrews 12:13); redeem the time (Ephesians 5:15–16) |
| Objectivity helps direction | Take thoughts captive (2 Corinthians 10:5); truth in the inward being (Psalm 51:6) |
| Direction can emerge under pressure | Trust in the Lord; He will make straight your paths (Proverbs 3:5–6) |

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## Dean's excerpt

### Two moves toward an exit

In a crisis, I normally begin by prioritizing the available choices, then decide how those choices are going to affect my life. Prioritizing choices allows me to objectively begin to determine a direction for extricating myself from a problem.

> **Scholar sidebar — Order beats freeze**  
> Dean’s “normally begin” is pastoral technique, not a guarantee of ease. Matthew 6:33 and Philippians 1:9–10 support ranking what matters. Hebrews 12:13 and Ephesians 5:15–16 support extrication as a moral good when stuck in harm. Objectivity here means facing effects, not numbing feelings.

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## Takeaways

1. **Start with the menu of choices.** Name what is actually available.
2. **Prioritize before you dramatize.** Ranking creates objectivity.
3. **Then weigh life effects.** Each option lands somewhere in real life.
4. **Goal: direction to extricate.** Decision serves exit, not endless rumination.
5. **This is Dean’s bridge to stories.** Estavio and Don will show prioritized career moves after loss.

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## First-time learner

### What is Dean saying in one sentence?
In crisis he prioritizes available choices, then decides how those choices will affect his life, so he can find a direction out of the problem.

### Why two steps instead of one?
Because a ranked list without effects is abstract, and effects without ranking are noise.

### Key verses to read with this lesson
- **Matthew 6:33** — Seek first.
- **Philippians 1:9–10** — Approve what is excellent.
- **Proverbs 3:5–6** — Trust; straight paths.
- **Hebrews 12:13** — Straight paths for feet.
- **Ephesians 5:15–16** — Wise use of time.

### A simple practice
Write three available choices for one problem. Rank 1–3. Under each, one sentence: how this affects family, work, and faith this quarter. Circle the top ranked that you will act on within seven days.

### How this feeds Ask Dean
Seed material for: *How does Dean make decisions in crisis? What does he prioritize first? What does extricating mean?*